If you
are like me, you’re one of those people who loves self-improvement.
Especially
where other people are concerned.

Occasionally
my efforts at self-improving my friends and family are met with resistance.
Perhaps they don’t feel like giving up smoking this week, seem to view that
collection of antique spoons less as clutter and more like a hobby, and aren’t
nearly as excited as I am about slashing latte purchases off of their weekly
budget. (Full disclosure: I don’t drink coffee, I’m a tea person. I’m saving a
FORTUNE on not drinking coffee. You should try it. This week alone I’ve already
not bought coffee at least six times. And it’s not even Wednesday. Imagine how
many cups of coffee I can NOT buy by Friday! That’s a significant savings right
there. You should probably try it.)
Resist
as they may, I’m no quitter. I’m not easily discouraged by their reluctance to
make small little steps to improving their lives. I’ll often suggest a book
they should read, a technique they could implement, a point of view they could
embrace. And, I’ll happily remind them. Often. Because . . . I really want the
best for them.
And I am
happy to tell them what that is.